#391 Sex Toys, Praise Kinks, and AHA Moments - with Finn
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#391 Sex Toys, Praise Kinks, and AHA Moments - with Finn

How can people find the right sex toy for them? What makes a sex toy a great toy or product? What are some of the top sex toys on the market? And what about lubes? Also, what the F is a praise kink? And why is having a sexual AHA moment so important?

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#390 How to Find (or Become) a Great Sex and Relationship Coach or Therapist - with Heather McPherson, LMFT-S LMFT-S, CST-S
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#390 How to Find (or Become) a Great Sex and Relationship Coach or Therapist - with Heather McPherson, LMFT-S LMFT-S, CST-S

When it comes to sex or relationships and wanting to find a therapist or coach, what should people know before they shop around? Why is it so important for therapists to be educated on how to support their client’s sexuality while not creating more shame? As a client, what are some of the signs my therapist or coach might not be a good fit for me? And how can I go about that? For people who want to become a sex educator or therapist, how can they start to venture down this path? 

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#389 Opening Up Without Blowing Up - with Ally Iseman
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#389 Opening Up Without Blowing Up - with Ally Iseman

In this episode we meet with ENM and relational expert Ally Iseman. We discuss everything from cheating and affairs to the how to's of non-monogamy, the many variations of non-monogamy, as well as how to become an expert communicator in your relationships. This episode is for monogamous and non-monogamous people who want to up their relational skills for more sexy success in and out of the bedroom.

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#388 Vaginas, Vulvas and Vibrators (and Period Sex!) - with Jordan D’Nelle
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#388 Vaginas, Vulvas and Vibrators (and Period Sex!) - with Jordan D’Nelle

When it comes to mismatched libidos, what are are top tips for couples in working together to find ways to meet each other’s sexual wants or desires as best as they can? What about period sex? We know not everyone is into it and aren’t trying to convince people to change their minds about it, but what are the main hangups are about period sex? Are there any benefits? And how can people have more pleasurable period sex?

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#385 Your Friend Filmed You Having Sex? - with Come Curious Podcast
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#385 Your Friend Filmed You Having Sex? - with Come Curious Podcast

This episode is with the fabulous duo Florence and Reed from the Come Curious podcast. We talk about everything from awkward/uncomfortable sexual experiences to top super hot sexual experiences, why you should have your friend film you having sex, why sex on the beach isn't for everyone, sex in bathroom stalls, kink and fetishes, and how people move through/beyond body shame and discover their unique “sexy”.

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#384 Bi the Way, Have You Taken the Slut Pledge or Had a Threesome? - with April Hirschman
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#384 Bi the Way, Have You Taken the Slut Pledge or Had a Threesome? - with April Hirschman

What is the slut pledge and why should we take it? How does embracing our desires relate to bravery? What does it mean to “lose your erotic virginity”, and how does this bring more pleasure and aliveness into one's life? How does being a bisexual person require a lot of erotic bravery? Are bi folks the ultimate unicorn for threesomes? And what are some top tips (regardless of orientation) for successful threesomes?

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#383 How to Build a Sex Room - with Melanie Rose
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#383 How to Build a Sex Room - with Melanie Rose

How did the fabulous designer Melanie Rose of Netflix's hit show How to Build a Sex Room become known as the “Mary Poppins of sex rooms”? How would someone know what kind of sex room would be the right fit for them, and what they lived in a small two bedroom apartment and have kids? Or a one bedroom or studio…can they make a sex room (or closet/trunk)? What is the purpose of couples making a "mood board" and how does it apply beyond building sex rooms? How can couples uncover their desires and fantasies to add more play and sexiness into the bedroom and beyond?

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#382 Behind the Sex Scenes in Film, Television and Porn - with CINTIMA
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#382 Behind the Sex Scenes in Film, Television and Porn - with CINTIMA

What is happening behind the scenes when sex/intimacy happens in film, television and porn? What us an "intimacy coordinator" and why do they play a pivotal roll in the on-set production? How do intimacy coordinators choreograph a scene, awnd hat makes CINTIMA’s training important and unique? How does watching a show with intimate plots deepen a couple’s relationship, and how does the quality of the content for intimate scenes - as well as what is happening behind the scenes - affect the consumer? And how can someone become an "intimacy coordinator"? Is it just a career move or can it change an individual's everyday life?

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#381 How to Pull Your Sex Life (or Relationship) Out of the Gutter - with Dolly Josette
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#381 How to Pull Your Sex Life (or Relationship) Out of the Gutter - with Dolly Josette

What is a “relationship/sex life reboot”? What are some of the main reasons why women and/or couples find themselves in a place that needs a reboot, and is this the same as a "sexless" marriage or relationship? How do hormones tie into all of this? Are there any preventative measures people can take to avoid entering the “I/We need a reboot”? And what about DIY ways people can do on their own when they are in the “help, I need a reboot” space? 

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#380 Sex on the Road and Oversees - with Tracy Felder
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#380 Sex on the Road and Oversees - with Tracy Felder

In this episode we chat with dear friend and fellow sex educator Tracy Felder. Tracy has traveled the world and has years of experience mastering the art of "sex on the road". From optimizing your (sexual) health while traveling, sex on airplanes, knowing what should be in your sexy travel kit, safety regulations with sex toys, and staying connected to partners from afar, listen to this episode to get your road time sexy on.

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#379 Calling All Bi and Bi-Curious Women! - with Genevieve from Skirt Club
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#379 Calling All Bi and Bi-Curious Women! - with Genevieve from Skirt Club

Why is it so important to create a safe erotic space for bi and bi curious women (as compared to other sex parties)? What actually happens at Skirt Club parties? Why do a lot of people feel bisexuality is an “invisible” orientation? Who are all women play parties for? And how can people talk to their partners about wanting to attend Skirt Club (or explore bisexuality in general)? 

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#378 Pheromones and the "Should I Bang You" Sniff Test - with Jacqui Rubinoff
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#378 Pheromones and the "Should I Bang You" Sniff Test - with Jacqui Rubinoff

What is the purpose of pheromones? What do they do and how do they work in the body? Do pheromones change based on hormones? Is it true that certain people’s pheromones are not for us? Is there anything that can be done when pheromones don't feel aligned? Is the universe saying this person isn’t compatible with me?

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#377 Scrotox, Dicktox, and Erections - with Dr. Paul Gittens
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#377 Scrotox, Dicktox, and Erections - with Dr. Paul Gittens

What is ED, what are the main causes, and who does it affect? What are some of the common treatments and exercises that can help with blood flow issues that cause ED? Is Scrotox really Botox for the balls? What does it do and does it really work? What about Botox for the penis? Is it a thing and how can it help with erections? What about people who have had prostate cancer? Can they still have an amazing sex life?

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#376 Porn and (Empowering) Gang Bangs - with Erika Lust
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#376 Porn and (Empowering) Gang Bangs - with Erika Lust

How has the porn industry shifted over the past 20 years, and how is it that Hollywood still gets it wrong when it comes to intimacy? What are the most common fantasies that women have based on their top porn interests? What about men/other genders? How can gang bang scenes (and gang bangs in general) be empowering? Can the woman receiving all the D be in control?

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#375 How to Do (and Not Do) Single Life - with Brianne Hogan
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#375 How to Do (and Not Do) Single Life - with Brianne Hogan

What’s the truth about being single? The good, the bad, the ugly? Why is being single at some point in your adult life important? How can single people become “single and stoked”? What are the steps or what does it take to love single life? What if I’m single and want to stay that way for a while. How can I navigate casual sex without getting into a relationship? And what if I’m single and looking for a LTR?

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#374 Kiss Like a Pro - with Erwan and Alicia Davon
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#374 Kiss Like a Pro - with Erwan and Alicia Davon

This episode is all about kissing, smooching, making out, and doing the nasty tongue dance. Repeat guests and relationship experts Alicia and Erwan Davon teach us all about the skills needed to be a great kisser, how to match your lover's kissing style, what to do if your partner is just so so in the kissing department, as well as hickeys, spitting, and if there's such thing as too much tongue

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#373 How to Get (or Not Get) Pregnant - with Lisa Hendrickson-Jack
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#373 How to Get (or Not Get) Pregnant - with Lisa Hendrickson-Jack

What non-hormonal options are available to prevent pregnancy OR increase fertility/support getting pregnant? What are some of the most common issues or health risks from using hormonal birth control? What is missing in the common fertility nutrition advice out there today, and why can it be problematic? What do both ancestral practices and modern research suggest to be optimal for female and male fertility when it comes to macronutrients, micronutrients, meal timing/spacing, and so on?

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