What YOU Are Saying About Shameless Sex!
“I just want to say thank you! My girlfriend listens to your podcast weekly, and lets just say. Im now one of those guys who has a girlfriend that wants sex all the time. All seriousness, your show has helped open her eyes and given her confidence and validation that her desires and fantasies were both normal and important. We now have quite a few toys, based on your recommendations! Just thought you both would like to know! Big thanks from a lucky guy!”
“I have been enjoying your podcast during these Covid Times and it has been no less that outstanding. You two have made the act of sex in your presentation of the materials and your guest on your podcast very natural in which it should be because sex should be enjoyed to the fullest between the individuals. I have caught up with all the podcast and will miss having you in my ear as I enjoy my morning walks. Continue to do what is making sex a natural act from talking to diving into the act physically with your partner. You two ladies are gorgeous and from your presence. Your confidence is a woman's most cherish identity which makes you two women as Sexy as FUCK in just her presence. I will continue to listen 1 time a week since I am up to Podcast #200. Continue the great work and the world will drop all stereotypes of eventually”
“I found your podcast recently and have devoured it. I've gotten some great sex and relationship tips to improve my partnership of almost 20 years, reconnect with myself as a sexual woman, and consider mindfully how to talk to my child about sex. However, the most important thing I've learned from your podcast is the power of AND! I teach kindergarten and with distance learning I am giving my students feedback over the screen. Thanks to you ladies I no longer give feedback with the word but...it's all about the and. It feels so much more supportive and encouraging of my students (and anyone else with whom I'm interacting). Who knew that Shameless Sex would be informing kindergarten language?!”
“My wife and I have had a very infrequent sex life for the last 4+ years, having sex maybe once a quarter. We are both attracted to each other, but it just didn't seem to be enough. For me personally, I deal with extreme depression and anxiety that have required a lot of various medications but I don't like to use that as an excuse. My biggest problem has always been self-confidence about my size, my ability to maintain an erection, and how long I last. My wife has always been very supportive and patient, but the mental block was still in my head”
“Quarantine has forced us to have some pretty pointed and intense discussions about our relationship (all for the better), including sex. I have always felt a lot of shame about sex from my previous experiences (very few and often toxic), so I usually try to avoid the topic or get upset when it's brought up. I really wanted to go beyond talking and do something about it in order to fulfill my wife and give her, and myself, the relationship she deserves”
“I came across your podcast looking for help, and started with episode 184 about ED, premature Ejaculation and Delayed Ejaculation. Just hearing you say "who decided when premature is?" and "Having an orgasm is a good thing" means so much. The way you talked about how anxiety can play a role, the impact of it becoming a mental block and neural pathway, the positive impact of breathing and relaxing your anus, and the fact that you can improve it was quite honestly life changing. It gave me more confidence than I have had in a long time, and I immediately surprised my wife and we had the best sexual experience that we have had in years”
“I know our sexual journey has a long way to go, but I want to sincerely thank you for getting me to a huge first step, and giving me a new healthier way to approach difficult issues for me”
“While the pandemic has brought negative emotions during this time, it has also brought gratitude. I wake up thankful for a healthy family, to still have a work during this time, and for an amazing life. I just want to express my gratitude to the both of you for what you do and for the impact your podcast and work have had on my life. Thank you for doing your part to normalize sex and for taking a non-judgemental, inclusive approach. Sex is something we don’t talk about growing up in the South, especially the fact that it is meant for pleasure, not just procreation. At 35, I feel like I have finally reached a point where I realize it is meant to be enjoyed in whatever form it takes. My communication has been better with my husband as I have continued to listen to your podcast over the last year or so, and he encourages me to continue to listen! He started tuning in yesterday as well. I could go on and on, but I will end by saying, I hope that our 2 daughters are as shameless about sex when they grow up as the 2 of your are. Thank you for what you do!”
“Okay so I’m a new listener currently on episode 16. I am the owner of a beautiful, powerful, and magical vulva!!! You and your guests are so amazing I honestly don’t have words. Today I learned more about anal play, which is something I avoided because of trauma. I have recently been exploring my butt hole more after realizing how awesome it feels to be licked. Anyway I was taking pictures of the moon and was feeling her energy. I decided to go get a joint and I stared at the moon, did power poses in the moonlight, got high as balls, then started dancing and talking to her through vibrations. Anyway I decided that since pot makes me feel more sensitive I would practice some of what you teach. I lubed up my bung and stared to wiggle in my finger, instead of a plug. I never knew what to do before! I found the spot and holy FUCK did I have an amazing orgasm! I found that it actually made my pussy even more wet and I legit think I would be able to cum even without clitoral stimulations. I used to swear I would never try anal and now I’m anxious for it! Thank you so much! I wish I had you when I was a teen, but I’m glad my daughter will have access to your teaching when she is older. I’m so much more in tune with my body and I’m sure that awareness and connections will only grow”
“I really love listening to your podcast, I have sent so much and it has helped me and my wife. When I listened to the birth control episode, I didn't really understand it all until I lived it. My wife had the implant removed , and within days she changed. She was happier and her sexual desires awake with a vengeance. Wow. Keep up you wonderful work. Hope the world around improves”
“Shameless Sex Podcast has become my bible and I have been preaching your good word to everyone I know (males and females, alike) since I started listening earlier in the year. I am a cis, "heteroflexible", married woman with a wonderful and supportive husband. I have struggled with sex since becoming sexually active in my teens-- mainly physically (pain and discomfort in most sexual experiences) but also often emotionally and mentally. I turned 30 this year and I made a promise to myself that I was going to take charge of my sexuality and get to the bottom of why, even in my current relationship, sex was so HARD. The sexually open, adventurous, erotic being I am on the inside just isn't always reflected on the outside. It is a conscious decision I make daily to keep working at it and getting to the place I want to be. I don't think I would be this far in my journey without the two of you and the help from all of your wonderful guests. You have changed my life and I don't know if there would ever be enough words to thank you for it. YOUR WORK IS AMAZING AND IT MATTERS”
“First of all I want to thank you both for being awesome "vulva owners" and having such a broad range of topics you cover on your podcast. Sending love and positivity your way from Appleton, Wisconsin. I stumbled across Shameless Sex late last year and have been such a huge fan ever since. Both my husband and I had many lovers before meeting each other. It is so refreshing to hear you both share so freely your love of pleasure and sexual exploration you have had with different partners (with safety obviously being a top priority). Your podcast on hormones in birth control and the detrimental effects it can have on women's sex drive really hit home. I'm 33 and had been on the Nuvaring since I was 17. Once I hit my late 20s my sex drive completely dropped off. I have been with my loving and supportive husband for a total of 11 years now. All of the sudden, I couldn't stand to be touched and I tried to explain to him that I had the sex drive of a cactus without being able to explain why. It was really hard to get turned on and then enjoy sex and I also was experiencing discomfort and dryness. I have always been a sexual person as an adult and I wish there was more real talk like this on how much hormonal birth control can mess with your head and vulva connection. I decided to try the copper IUD on your recommendation at the beginning of this year. I have had great success with it so far. That, combined with Uberlube have been pretty fucking mind blowing. I told my husband we need to start giving this as birthday and wedding gifts!! This shit it amazing!! Also, glad to support a Midwest business! Not only is my vulva now as juicy as a ripe peach, but my head finally feels clear, like a fog was lifted that I never totally realized was there. I also had a tendency for my head to go into a slightly dark place, again without realizing this was a drug side effect. As the last few months have been pretty depressing and emotional worldwide, I bought one of the under the bed restraint kits you were talking about, because we only live once, right! We haven't used that yet because I'm recuperating from foot surgery, but pretty soon it will be game on sisters! In your Friday podcast you shared that you were going through breakups in some way or another. I hope this time can be seen more as a transition into some new, more fulfilling paths in your lives. I recently ran across this quote and wish I had heard it when going through rough times myself. "New beginnings are often disguised as painful endings" Lao Tzu, Chinese Philosopher This also seems fitting for everything that is going on in the world right now. 2020 will hopefully be the ending to a lot of injustices people are dealing with, and push us into a better version of the world we had been living in. Keep up the good work! You've been great company the last few months as I unexpectedly became a part of the unemployment pool. I keep telling people that I just became a full-time stay-at-home cat mom, for now :) Wishing you both the best, sending love your way!”
“Thank you so much! I loved this episode! I’m a man and I’m starting to slowly accept the fact that I’m not heterosexual. I’m accepting more and more and realizing that I’m so much more gay leaning (homoflexible I am thinking). I have always felt shame about my attraction to men sexually and shame about my desire to bottom and my experimentation with anal play. Thank you so much for touching on all of this!”
“I just started listening to the podcast last week for something to listen to while walking. I picked a few episodes that sounded interesting from the title, but #101 with Dr Amadora really helped me and my wife. We've been together for 11 years and were dealing with stress and communication issues this past month due to Covid anxiety and miscommunication. We listened to this episode together Saturday night and both cried and agreed about everything that was said. Sunday, Monday and Today we had amazing sex and feel closer than ever. Thank you and Dr Amadora for making this episode. I found it at just the time when I needed it and it probably saved us from separation and sadness”
